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The following poems were shared with me by grieving clients:

Musee des Beaux Arts 


About suffering they were never wrong,

The Old Masters: how well they understood
Its human position; how it takes place
While someone else is eating or opening a window or just
walking dully along;

How, when the aged are reverently, passionately waiting
For the miraculous birth, there always must be
Children who did not specially want it to happen, skating
On a pond at the edge of the wood:
They never forgot

That even the dreadful martyrdom must run its course
Anyhow in a corner, some untidy spot
Where dogs go on with their doggy life and the torturer’s   
Horse scratches its innocent behind on a tree.
In Brueghel’s Icarus, for instance: how everything turns away
Quite leisurely from the disaster; the ploughman may
Have heard the splash, the forsaken cry,
But for him it was not an important failure; the sun shone
As it had to on the white legs disappearing into the green

Water; and the expensive delicate ship that must have seen
Something amazing, a boy falling out of the sky,
Had somewhere to get to and sailed calmly on.
                                                            -W.H. Auden-

Never Again Would Birds’ Song
                    Be the Same

                    He would declare and could himself believe
                    That the birds there in all the garden round

                    From having heard the daylong voice of Eve

                    Had added to their own an oversound,

                    Her tone of meaning but without the words.

                    Admittedly an eloquence so soft

                    Could only have had an influence on birds

                    When call or laughter carried it aloft.

                    Be that as may be, she was in their song.

                    Moreover her voice upon their voices crossed

                    Had now persisted in the woods so long

                    That probably it never would be lost.

                    Never again would birds’ song be the same.

                    And to do that to birds was why she came.

                                                -Robert Frost


                    Demeter Mourning

                    Nothing can console me. You may bring silk

                    to make skin sigh, dispense yellow roses

                    in the manner of ripened dignitaries.

                    You can tell me repeatedly

                    I am unbearable (and I know this):

                    still, nothing turns the gold to corn,

                    nothing is sweet to the tooth crushing in.
 
                    I’ll not ask for the impossible;

                    one learns to walk by walking.

                    In time I’ll forget this empty brimming,

                    I may laugh again at

                    a bird, perhaps, chucking the nest—

                    but it will not be happiness,

                    for I have known that.

                        -Rita Dove-

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